The Importance of Communication during Divorce

 Posted on December 00,0000 in Divorce

Many believe that open and honest communication is an important part of maintaining a good relationship. However, that same thing can be said for those going through a divorce who wish to find a fast resolution, as well as need to maintain some form of relationship with their ex-spouse once the marriage has ended.

Keeping the Lines of Communication Open and Positive

No two people begin a marriage with the thought that it will end prematurely. However, open and calm communication tends to be more productive in seeing the divorce through to a satisfying resolution. Here are few tips to consider while attempting to maintain open communication during your divorce.

• Although they may be the last person to whom you wish to speak, sitting across a table from your spouse to discuss how each foresees divorce proceedings taking place can help each better prepare for the coming months.
• Document divorce communications by keeping track of emails and phone calls, the nature of each and subjects discussed.
• Never, ever put your children in the middle of divorce communication. Do not use your children to relay messages as sometimes, through no fault of their own, a child might miscommunicate an important detail or forget to pass the message altogether.
• Keep open the lines of communication with your attorney. Regardless of how innocuous you might consider that most recent conversation, text or email with your spouse, keep a record and provide it to your attorney. You never know when it might become important in the future.

Healthy Communication

It never hurts to find someone to whom you can open up about what you are experiencing. Getting things off your chest can help you maintain peace in your life.

• Find a friend who will let you go on and on about your divorce, perhaps someone who had a similar experience and understands that through which you are going.
• A therapist or other mental health professional will not only listen but even provide guidance for handling emotional issues as they arise.

A Knowledgeable Illinois Divorce Attorney Can Help Reduce the Stress of the Process

It is important to retain the services of an experienced lawyer who understands the importance of applying a fair, yet firm approach to divorce proceedings. Work with an Aurora divorce lawyer who provides the balance of experience and compassion you need to ensure a smooth and stress-free experience. The Law Offices of Matthew M. William, P.C., apply the resources necessary to secure a satisfactory resolution, whether through annulment, mediation, or litigation. Contact our offices today at 630-409-8184 to schedule an initial consultation.

Sources:

http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/healthy-divorce.aspx

https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/family-law-attorney/documenting-divorce-communications